As you have guessed by the title that things did not work out with our newest addition due to incompatibilities. I will not be talking much about this now. The decision was mutual, there are no hard feelings, and we wish That Guy the best in his endeavors and sorting out his personal business.
This was an experience that we've all learned from. **THE MOST IMPORTANT** - put people under strict consideration for a minimum of 6 months - this will give you a better idea if they are a good match for the group or not.
There are a lot of feelings and emotions to consider when things are happening, as you know we have lost some close people in our lives this past month, and we are still grieving in our own ways, all healthy but different, to fit each of our needs of course.
With our communication skills we grieve alone, one on one, and together as a triangle. We comfort, hug, and touch each other as needed. If it's crying, talking, snuggling, or just sitting in silence, we are all here for each other in the best and worst times.
Next steps... Keep moving forward. We can't change what the outcome is, we can just stay honest and true, our communication skills have met their match but when things get mixed up it isn't hard for any of us to sit down, talk calmly and find out what the root of the problem is. We all have our own problems, it's how you treat the problems of others that you earn love, trust, and respect.
Everyone has problems.
Try and help someone out sometime and let me know how you feel.
Listen to what your lover has to say while you are laying beside them in bed.
Put your head on their chest, ask them how their day was, and if anything needs to be discussed.
Let them know you care.
Show them you love them don't just tell them.
Be genuine as well as a gentleman with a sadist twist because that's okay.
Hold the door for them then smack their ass and watch them wince in pain because it feels good when you hit the bruises from last night.
So in conclusion, yes we are sad we no longer have our fourth. We are reflecting upon this as a learning experience that has strengthened our relationship(s), tightened our communication and tested our limits.
Now we are 3 Mon Ami.
Lots of Love,
KDaddyG
This was an experience that we've all learned from. **THE MOST IMPORTANT** - put people under strict consideration for a minimum of 6 months - this will give you a better idea if they are a good match for the group or not.
There are a lot of feelings and emotions to consider when things are happening, as you know we have lost some close people in our lives this past month, and we are still grieving in our own ways, all healthy but different, to fit each of our needs of course.
With our communication skills we grieve alone, one on one, and together as a triangle. We comfort, hug, and touch each other as needed. If it's crying, talking, snuggling, or just sitting in silence, we are all here for each other in the best and worst times.
Next steps... Keep moving forward. We can't change what the outcome is, we can just stay honest and true, our communication skills have met their match but when things get mixed up it isn't hard for any of us to sit down, talk calmly and find out what the root of the problem is. We all have our own problems, it's how you treat the problems of others that you earn love, trust, and respect.
Everyone has problems.
Try and help someone out sometime and let me know how you feel.
Listen to what your lover has to say while you are laying beside them in bed.
Put your head on their chest, ask them how their day was, and if anything needs to be discussed.
Let them know you care.
Show them you love them don't just tell them.
Be genuine as well as a gentleman with a sadist twist because that's okay.
Hold the door for them then smack their ass and watch them wince in pain because it feels good when you hit the bruises from last night.
So in conclusion, yes we are sad we no longer have our fourth. We are reflecting upon this as a learning experience that has strengthened our relationship(s), tightened our communication and tested our limits.
Now we are 3 Mon Ami.
Lots of Love,
KDaddyG