I know, a dillhole is something not particularly grown up to call someone, but while I was dating this person that most people would call a jerk, dick, or even an asshole I was not allowed to curse in public or any public forum (such as status' or writings).
I understand that many people find cursing unbecoming, and it is very unladylike, but screw that, I like to use the words that come to mind to describe things, no matter what they are.
Do I know the difference between when it's ok to curse and not curse..OF COURSE I DO!
This person did not choose to ever actually take me out in public to see that I find a difference between public forums (that are 'personal') and a public event (kink or vanilla), and do know how to behave accordingly, and like a proper lady.
I must say though, the times when I curse the most happen to be if I'm sitting around with Daddy and Little One smoking.
Smoking what?
Well, usually green leafy material, but also cigars, and we really enjoy smoking the hookah (Definition HERE if needed) with natural herbal shisha which is plant materials blended with molasses and flavouring. However, this was something that 'Dillhole' also did not approve of.
I understand not everyone approves of smoking green, but Dillhole was aware VERY early into knowing Daddy, Sissy & myself that we all smoke it. It was never mentioned up front that this was or could be an issue. After about 2 weeks it was sprung on us that being exposed to green *could* (not definitely would) compromise job security for said Dillhole, but it was never requested directly that we discontinue smoking in their presence, they were always given warning, and alternative space where they were not exposed to smoke was always provided.
Also around the two week mark, there started being comments made about cigar smoking as well. I'd like to point out here, that Dillhole is a cigarette smoker. Daddy & Sissy are both ex smokers (Daddy 4 1/2 years, Sissy only about 6 months & I'm super proud of both of them!) and I've never smoked or let ANYONE (including Daddy or Sissy) smoke in my house, never mind my bedroom, which is where I allowed dillhole to smoke, which I later found out Daddy greatly disapproved of and I will not be allowing in the future.
When we did not stop smoking in the presence of Dillhole they started saying how it was a hard limit for them to ever be around ANY drugs, because they themselves are a recovering addict, and the temptation is too much, even though green was never the choice, and there was NO pressure here at all; though I can sort of see the temptation. However, Dillhole did go as far as to pass/hold the bong for me, as well as light it, never once being asked to do any of those things; and never chose to leave the room.
This person also held Sissy & myself (but mostly Sissy) responsible for medication that was required to be taken at a specific time of day..which happened to be 6 am because that worked for this person's work schedule, but let me tell you something, ain't NOBODY up at that ridiculous hour in this house on a weekend. If Dillhole could be responsible for this most of the week why could they not do it when they were here for 2-3 days a week?
So..let me tell you this relationship with Dillhole didn't last too much longer. After a month it was most done, without ever a question of repairing the damage that's been done.
The next BIG issue is that Daddy & I have children (so I hope you've all caught on that Daddy really is my husband by now..) and I will admit that we are pretty relaxed parents, particularly on the weekend. Our girls are 3 & 6..our house gets a little wild sometimes, and by the weekend I'm run down and exhausted from kids, and Sissy steps up to the plate to help out. She doesn't mind doing this, she likes her weekend mornings to have time alone with the kids, and it gives Daddy & I time to sleep in a little or have an extra cuddle in the morning.
Well, Dillhole just couldn't approve of my parenting style or choices. I'm too irresponsible, ignore my kids (because I sleep in), and let Sissy do too much of the work. Daddy & I having children also became a trigger for Dillhole at some point, though again, they knew upfront we had them, but because Dillhole realized that they in fact were the one being the shitty parent to their children.
I understand that many people find cursing unbecoming, and it is very unladylike, but screw that, I like to use the words that come to mind to describe things, no matter what they are.
Do I know the difference between when it's ok to curse and not curse..OF COURSE I DO!
This person did not choose to ever actually take me out in public to see that I find a difference between public forums (that are 'personal') and a public event (kink or vanilla), and do know how to behave accordingly, and like a proper lady.
I must say though, the times when I curse the most happen to be if I'm sitting around with Daddy and Little One smoking.
Smoking what?
Well, usually green leafy material, but also cigars, and we really enjoy smoking the hookah (Definition HERE if needed) with natural herbal shisha which is plant materials blended with molasses and flavouring. However, this was something that 'Dillhole' also did not approve of.
I understand not everyone approves of smoking green, but Dillhole was aware VERY early into knowing Daddy, Sissy & myself that we all smoke it. It was never mentioned up front that this was or could be an issue. After about 2 weeks it was sprung on us that being exposed to green *could* (not definitely would) compromise job security for said Dillhole, but it was never requested directly that we discontinue smoking in their presence, they were always given warning, and alternative space where they were not exposed to smoke was always provided.
Also around the two week mark, there started being comments made about cigar smoking as well. I'd like to point out here, that Dillhole is a cigarette smoker. Daddy & Sissy are both ex smokers (Daddy 4 1/2 years, Sissy only about 6 months & I'm super proud of both of them!) and I've never smoked or let ANYONE (including Daddy or Sissy) smoke in my house, never mind my bedroom, which is where I allowed dillhole to smoke, which I later found out Daddy greatly disapproved of and I will not be allowing in the future.
When we did not stop smoking in the presence of Dillhole they started saying how it was a hard limit for them to ever be around ANY drugs, because they themselves are a recovering addict, and the temptation is too much, even though green was never the choice, and there was NO pressure here at all; though I can sort of see the temptation. However, Dillhole did go as far as to pass/hold the bong for me, as well as light it, never once being asked to do any of those things; and never chose to leave the room.
This person also held Sissy & myself (but mostly Sissy) responsible for medication that was required to be taken at a specific time of day..which happened to be 6 am because that worked for this person's work schedule, but let me tell you something, ain't NOBODY up at that ridiculous hour in this house on a weekend. If Dillhole could be responsible for this most of the week why could they not do it when they were here for 2-3 days a week?
So..let me tell you this relationship with Dillhole didn't last too much longer. After a month it was most done, without ever a question of repairing the damage that's been done.
The next BIG issue is that Daddy & I have children (so I hope you've all caught on that Daddy really is my husband by now..) and I will admit that we are pretty relaxed parents, particularly on the weekend. Our girls are 3 & 6..our house gets a little wild sometimes, and by the weekend I'm run down and exhausted from kids, and Sissy steps up to the plate to help out. She doesn't mind doing this, she likes her weekend mornings to have time alone with the kids, and it gives Daddy & I time to sleep in a little or have an extra cuddle in the morning.
Well, Dillhole just couldn't approve of my parenting style or choices. I'm too irresponsible, ignore my kids (because I sleep in), and let Sissy do too much of the work. Daddy & I having children also became a trigger for Dillhole at some point, though again, they knew upfront we had them, but because Dillhole realized that they in fact were the one being the shitty parent to their children.
* * * * * To Be Continued * * * * *
Much Love,
~*~ Kat ~*~
Much Love,
~*~ Kat ~*~
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